The 40th wedding anniversary flower is the gladiola. It symbolizes loyalty and strong devotion between a long-term married couple.

A "ruby" is the typical 40th-anniversary gift. Choose something red if you want a less expensive choice. Examples include red candles, red glasses, red canvas, red mugs, red blankets, red cards, etc. You can use the recommendations we provided above.

“Happy Anniversary – I can’t believe you’re still with me!”

“I’ve always wanted the best for you – which is obviously me!”

“A good marriage is like a casserole—only those responsible for it really know what goes in it.”

“Morning breath and all, you’re still the one I want to wake up to. Happy anniversary, my love.”

"Together, we have celebrated the ruby, pearl, and now silver jubilees! Greetings on your 40th wedding anniversary, my love."

"Being able to take care of someone you adore must be nice. You two are incredibly lucky to have met, and I wish you nothing but happiness in the years ahead. On your 40th wedding anniversary, congratulations."

"On your 40th wedding anniversary, congratulations. I've always loved seeing how pleased you and your spouse are together, and I'm delighted you two are growing older and shining in each other's love."

Your relationship with your guy and the kind of people you both are will all determine how things turn out. You want to surprise your spouse with a gift, or you want to do something as basic as spending time with them, engaging in off-the-wall conversation about their jobs or personal lives, and listening to them.